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writes:Hi everyone I could really do with some good advice on this my boyfriend of 11 months and I were talking. A couple of nights ago we were fwbs first I said to him. It feels like I like him more than he likes me he said it isn't true its just how he is so I asked him if he was still in love with his ex and he said yes he was they split up nearly two year ago now I just feel second best and I'm not who he really wants I haven't text or rang him since he said this he has text me and I have replied but I can't bring myself to text him this really upset me as I was falling in love with him he said it was hard to start overi have heard him a couple of times whisper he loves me but I ask him what he said and he won't say it agin I just don't know what to do what would you do in this situation I have been so good to him. I even bought him presents for his birthday and christmas I've got a son and so has he what should I do
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (29 January 2012):
 Just to clarify you guys started out as FWBs???
That's the problem right there. You can't make a smooth transition from FWBs to a relationship. It doesn't work that way.
I'm going to take a guess and say it was him who wanted a FWBs then you wanted a relationship?? He didn't want anything serious because he's still not over his ex, but needed to satisfy his sexual urges.
There's nothing you can do, but break up with him. At least he was truthful about his ex. However, he shouldn't have ever gotten into this relationship if his heart wasn't 100% yours. You shouldn't have to feel like you're second best. Time to cut him off.
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