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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've been with this guy for the past 8 months.When we first started dating he would always ask for a threesome with another girl (a complete stranger that we didn't know), but i always said no. I even threatened to leave him for the other girl IF i did decide to go through with it (i was bi but i'm not any more because i can't find a girl that's my type)or i'd tell him the threesome would have to be with another guy.After a while he just stopped asking and if i brought it up he'd say "No, your enough" or some thing like that. So i figured he stop thinking of having one or something.A few minutes ago he asked for a threesome. Why i do not know because he hadn't asked for months.I feel like i'm not enough for him, i thought maybe our relationship would change after a few months, he even said that his feeling would change for me after a while (meaning love) but it hasn't and probbly never will.What should I do?
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (5 December 2009):
 What you should do is stop for a minute and think.
Think about the fact you have already invested 8 months of your life into this relationship, and from the beginning he has been asking for sex acts you are not prepared to indulge in.
Think about the fact he cannot accept your answer to this.
Think about the fact you have written that he probably never will love you (or thats my reading of it)
Think about the fact you feel you will never be enough for him.
And then, think about if that is what you really want for your self, and then make your decisions!
Good luck!
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