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writes:So I've only had one girlfriend in my life. We were together for six months then she broke up with me. That was six months ago. I know that her and I are not meant to be. Everyone says that it will get better with time and that I'll find someone else but I don't see that happening. I just feel like I should give up on ever finding that special someone. I know I need focus on myself right now before looking for a relationship, but I don't think I will ever be in another relationship. Maybe the one failed relationship I had was meant to show me that I should be alone. I just feel so hopeless right now.
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reader, Love4Life +, writes (20 September 2009):
 The first break up is the worst. My advice is to surround your self with friends. Don't try to forget her but cherish the memories. Just don't spend all your time dwelling on what might have been. Besides if you focus on losing her you will truly lose the chance to be friends again because she will never feel comfortable around you. I really suggest dating. Not to have a relationship but just for the learning experience. Besides if your heart was broken that means you loved her and actually took the time to care, but you have to move on. If you are meant to be together it might still happen one day. Just don't spend all your energy focusing on what is done. If you do, you'll regret it for the rest of your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2009): hi hope this helps :)
Not everyone can find a relationship right now. It takes time to find someone who you can deeply care about and feel the same about you. But that doesnt mean you have to give up. The key to life is patience. Keep a smile on your face and keep treating people nicely and you'll soon find someone. I'm sure there is a girl as lost as you and hoping to meet someone who can tell her how he feels. Keep your head up it could be you! :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2009): dear ; mr. lonely
From a womens point of view i think you are beinq to harsh on your self . listen hun i know its hard and you miqht feel as if you unattractive in some way but its not that . its juss some qirls are hardheaded they don't see who's really lookinq for a relationship and who's just tryinq to get into their pants . don't be so harsh on your self I'm pretty sure yhu are a smart . handsome. younq man who ne qirl would be lucky to have . don't qive up stayinq alone isn't the answe. i know you said your sick of qivinq it time ; but if you qive it some more time and don't think about it ; it may come sooner then you think .
- Advicechickx3
p.s. Love is a mystery . expect the unexpected . the qirl you least expect miqht be the one you won't let go of in the future ahead x3
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