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writes:Hey guys... There's a girl I've got some kind of a crush on. We started communicating closely about 2 months ago. Since that time there's not a single day that we haven't been texting each other, I usually text first, and if I don't, she always does.We had several dates, but actually couldn't meet each other too often as first she caught cold, and then I did. You know it is not ok to turn up on a date with running nose, sneezing and stuff...The thing is, she's in a relationship with a guy she's fed up with for 4 years already. They're arguing all the time, and she said its very difficult for her. I said I couldn't understand that, and then she said that she doesn't want the time they spent together to be lost in vane. I'm actually confused as she neither rejects me nor shows no interest. I think she's perfect and I can't find the reason fot her boyfriend to be such a jerk. I feel like I just can't stay away from her...What should I do?
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reader, NerdyGuy +, writes (29 May 2011):
NerdyGuy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes, I guess, guilt is the key here. Now I understand that I had no feelings for her before she told me her bf was a bastard. Which leads to - I have no feelings for her, I just have feelings for vulnarable girls. Especially pretty vulnarable girls :)Dude, let's stop feeling guilty for the things we haven't done.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2011): I'm in the same situation my friend! Stay away!! I didn't and it's wrong. The person I was seeing left her boyfriend before anything happened with me. She said she loved and still loves me, but she went back to him because he said he was suicidal! But still she texts me, I work near to her and she finds excuses to pass my office so I see her (she told me this). When we were together everything was fantastic, but afterwards she would say "we can't do this anymore". We would agree not to text each other, then it would start again. She says her her boyfriend is horrible to her, but she feels too guilty to leave. When I say she has made her choice, she goes mad and says she has no choice, and she wants to be with me. It's all crap!! I don't know why she keeps phoning, texting etc! Maybe it's the attention, maybe you like me felt really sorry for the girl, but in the end they have both chosen (mine and yours)someone else!
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reader, NerdyGuy +, writes (15 May 2011):
NerdyGuy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI wish I had guts to do that. Anyway, thanks for help, I really appreciate your advice.
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reader, NerdyGuy +, writes (15 May 2011):
NerdyGuy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm not intending to be the second guy. I hate cheaters and stuff just the way you do. And I'll never let her cheat on that guy as he's 2 times bigger than I am :DMy point is, I don't know why she's behaving like that. She keeps telling me he's an asshole, she spends most of her time home alone and stuff, but she still refers to him as her bf. Is she waiting for me to make some serious move before actually leaving him, or is she enjoying situation the way it is? I don't want to ask her straight, as I'm afraid of losing her.PS. This can't be considered cheating as we haven't even kissed. Perhaps that's what being friends mean :)
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reader, NerdyGuy +, writes (15 May 2011):
NerdyGuy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionFair enough. Thank you.
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