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*at1trippy
writes:Just last night I told my partner that I have had anal warts before. We still haven't had sex and I was so afraid to tell him, but I knew he had to know and so I told him. I had to tell him partly because we were about to head in the direction of sex. He seemed rather perplexed by it and decided to do some research on the spot. After a long while he stopped, turned over and went to sleep. It wasn't a cold shoulder kind of turn just a tired, sleepy one. Nevertheless I can't feel that things will never be the same between us. He didn't even say goodbye this morning after I left....I'm rather distraught and feel neglected. Was I wrong to tell him about it? I've been clear for several months now and I've gotten the shots so would it have been better if I never said anything at all? Reply to this Question
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reader, mimiianian  +, writes (14 May 2011):
Honesty is usually the best policy. You don't want to start your relationship with a lie.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (14 May 2011):
 Since Anal Warts ( I had to google that one too) is a STD.
To quote the website:
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•Most patients with genital warts are between the ages of 17-33 years. Genital warts are highly contagious. There is around a 60% risk of getting the infection from a single sexual contact with someone who has genital warts.
Up to 20% of people with genital warts will have other sexually transmitted diseases (STDs).
There is no single effective cure for removal of genital warts.
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Yes, you did right in telling him. HE has a right to know.
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