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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi i really need help, i met a boy in a school trip he was very funny and i like him, we talked everyday until late hours, he flirted on me but i knew he got a girlfriend, when i asked about her he didnt talke alot about it he only told me they were having problems, he used tu tell me he really enojoyed espending time with me and talking with him, that i made him laugh and all that, one day he came and told me he had broken with her girlfriend and then we started to go out together or he used to come to my house, one night he confessed me he loved me and he was very very in love with me, that he wasn't that in love before, so we first kissed and we didn't stop since that, that week we went to a party and told me again about his feelings and asked me not to hurt him and i asked him that too, but he told me he was very scared about me hurting him. Time passed and he came to my house and all that but one day i told him it was very fast and we promised not to kiss anymore like a proove he really loved mee, hee told me that was very difficult but he would do it for mee andd as he said he resisted and the one who didnt was me so i stolen him one kiss and since that our promise end . We went on vacations to a beach and we were together it was awsome i had never been that happy in my whole life, he made me smile like i have never made. One day i told my bf i was very afraid of him to be confused, and that happened, one day he came and he was not the same, in msn he told me he didn't feel the same, that week i heard that hee and his friends went to a camping and there was his Ex girlfriend, i saw photos in facebook and they are together in all the photos, and also i heard there was Reconciliation, i cryed all night, y couldn't believe it really, i really love him, we return of vacations and he didnt sayed hello to me , until one day he told me he wanted to talk with me, i was very nervous and put up some makeup and straight my hair to look prettier but he only told mee the same and that i dont have to think other reason, he was nos going to return with his ex girlfirend but face to face because hee did it in msn, we went to a party i drank a little but hee was wasted so his friends helped him to throw up but i came and took care of him but i told him how much i love him i knew hee wouldn't remember but the other day hee told me "thank u for taking care of me" i remember most of it but this week has been a nightmare i dont know why but he has been with her some recess and they dont look as friends i cant resist that i am very very bad and he can't see mee neither, i got a friend who is also his friend and he told me hee really feels bad about it and thats why he cant say hello to me. I dont know what to doo he really loved mee, where is all that love? what can i do tooo return to that? i can't live without him i really miss him so much. Please Help me
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reader, Lola1 +, writes (15 September 2009):
 You have to stop telling yourself you can't live without him. You had something fun and now it's over. When you are 16 and 17, you are not in love. In a few months, you'll be on to someone else.
It hurts. I remember how it felt to be that age and feeling that it was true love.
Put on some of your favourite empowering music - not sad songs - happy ones, or ones about getting over someone, or ones that make you feel a little angry. Get back to the things you love to do and the friends you enjoy being with.
Tell yourself that you will get over him and that you are ok. Tell your friends (especially the shared one) that you ARE over him - confessing only to those in your INNER CIRCLE and only if you are desperate for someone to talk to. If you tell yourself you will be fine your body, mind and heart WILL follow.
Trust me... been there. ;-)
Good luck.
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