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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey im aiming for a guy i really like we dont really know each other but ive heard a lot about him (im not a stalker lol) but yer ive heard hes got with and laid quite a few stunning girls, hes very handsome himself. how can i compete with these girls?cheers x x x Reply to this Question
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reader, PsyCookie  +, writes (3 August 2008):
 Well, the first step on competing with someone else is to NOT compare yourself with these same people.
Now, in reality, beauty isn't everything. Yes, it's an important aspect of our lives (sadly), but it isn't a deffinite in a relationship. Personality wins hands down to attract someone. So a way to "win" against these other girls is by having an awesome, confident personality.
I stress confidense in here because this defines your character. People tend to gravitate towards positive people and avoid those who are negative, so if you have a great confidense in yourself, people will be attracted towards you even when there are physically prettier girls out there.
So when you're with him, be yourself and show him you have a good time with him! Show that you're not afraid on your looks and that you're not intimidated by anyone. This way you will beat these other "stunning" girls by a tenth.
In a more superficial way, you could start dressing better (if you haven't) DON'T DRESS SLUTTY OR TOO REVEALING! Or you will be seen as "easy" and not even appreciated. Look in magazines or ask for help on how to dress according to your type of body and your taste.
You could also start flirting with him to let him know you're interested in him. Hopefully you already know how to do this.
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