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writes:I've been going out with my boyfriend for 4 months and we are so close! but lately i feel as if he's getting taken away from me, his best friend is a girl and he is so close to her maybe a bit too close. he promises me nothing will ever happen between them but sometimes i dont no if i can trust him, what shall i do ?
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reader, PsyCookie  +, writes (3 August 2008):
 How close is close?
You have to realize that she's his best friend and the only thing that worries you is that she's a girl. If you think there's something between them, then why the hell is he with you? You're already 4 months with him, so it must mean he's interested in you.
Now just put yourself in HIS shoes. Would you like it if your boyfriend kept on being suspicious and not trust you around your guy friends? Wouldn't you find it unfair? Wouln't you expect him to trust you?
Don't feel bad for feeling jealous (if you do), everyone will have this at some point in their relationships in various degrees. Just don't let this destroy your relationship with your boyfriend. Learn to trust your man and see his friendship with this girl as just any other friendship.
Good luck.
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