New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

I feel like his sex toy, not a girlfriend

Tagged as: Dating, Troubled relationships, Trust issues<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (10 February 2015) 6 Answers - (Newest, 10 February 2015)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have been dating someone but he keeps lying to me an making false promises to take me out but makes excuses as to why he cant keep promises an he only sees me on a night time but not through the day an he says he has to look after his son whos 11, i feel like a booty call to him not his girlfriend. He takes me for granted an never takes me seriously an i have bad trust issues an always breakin up with him an gettin back together but he says i keep pushin me away but i dont feel appreciated or special but only a sex toy whenever it suits him. Do you think i should stay with him or leave? we dont do things as a couple just stay in have sex watch tv or sleep an all he keeps sayin is he got save up but he works gets paid every week but he says hes skint all the time is he lying??

View related questions: booty call, sex toy

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (10 February 2015):

So_Very_Confused agony auntyes he is lying. that's what you NEED to hear.

He is USING your BODY and you are permitting it.

IF you want to know where he stands refuse to have sex with him now till he takes you out to dinner.

<-- Rate this answer

A male reader, SensitiveBloke United Kingdom +, writes (10 February 2015):

SensitiveBloke agony auntYou have no reason to stay with him. Dump him for good this time.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, BrownWolf Canada +, writes (10 February 2015):

BrownWolf agony aunt

You are with a guy and looking for an A...But he gives you an F. Keep stick with an F and you will always get an F. So if you want an A, you need to do what??

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2015):

well do not have sex with him when you meet him on a few occasions just say you are not in the mood ...

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, Aunty BimBim Australia +, writes (10 February 2015):

Aunty BimBim agony auntRelationships are supposed to be a balance of give and take. Its easy to see what he is getting out of this, but what are you getting out of it?

All you are to him is a handy hole for him to stick his old fella in........... he could use a knothole in a fence for the same thing. Lock the door and don't let him back in, and don't accept second best again, every woman deserves better than what he is offering you.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (10 February 2015):

Honeypie agony auntSo DUMP him. He isn't going to change. He doesn't give a rats behind what you want and he RATHER not spend money ON you.

Sounds like a pretty crappy relationship anyways if you constantly break up and he constantly lies.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "I feel like his sex toy, not a girlfriend"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0781637000036426!