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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: I have been dating someone but he keeps lying to me an making false promises to take me out but makes excuses as to why he cant keep promises an he only sees me on a night time but not through the day an he says he has to look after his son whos 11, i feel like a booty call to him not his girlfriend. He takes me for granted an never takes me seriously an i have bad trust issues an always breakin up with him an gettin back together but he says i keep pushin me away but i dont feel appreciated or special but only a sex toy whenever it suits him. Do you think i should stay with him or leave? we dont do things as a couple just stay in have sex watch tv or sleep an all he keeps sayin is he got save up but he works gets paid every week but he says hes skint all the time is he lying??
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 February 2015):
yes he is lying. that's what you NEED to hear.
He is USING your BODY and you are permitting it.
IF you want to know where he stands refuse to have sex with him now till he takes you out to dinner.
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reader, SensitiveBloke +, writes (10 February 2015):
You have no reason to stay with him. Dump him for good this time.
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reader, BrownWolf +, writes (10 February 2015):
You are with a guy and looking for an A...But he gives you an F. Keep stick with an F and you will always get an F. So if you want an A, you need to do what??
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2015): well do not have sex with him when you meet him on a few occasions just say you are not in the mood ...
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (10 February 2015):
Relationships are supposed to be a balance of give and take. Its easy to see what he is getting out of this, but what are you getting out of it?
All you are to him is a handy hole for him to stick his old fella in........... he could use a knothole in a fence for the same thing. Lock the door and don't let him back in, and don't accept second best again, every woman deserves better than what he is offering you.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (10 February 2015):
So DUMP him. He isn't going to change. He doesn't give a rats behind what you want and he RATHER not spend money ON you.
Sounds like a pretty crappy relationship anyways if you constantly break up and he constantly lies.
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