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writes:What can I do to take my mind of my situation?I'm very stresses out, I got a layoff from my last job and still haven't been able to find a new one...My bills are racking up and already borrowed about 5k from my parent which I am not proud of...I feel like my friends are deserting me slowly but surely...Met a girl and we're falling for each other, sounds good except for the fact she's married...I'm so confused about life right now...I dunno what to do anymore, seems like nothing ever goes my way ahhhh Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2007): Hi,
As much as it stink's..get out there and find a job..forget about the married girl for now..it's hard but in the long run, just explain to her that you need to distance yoursel from her right now because..your having your own problem's and she is already taken..technically, think about it even if she did leave her husband, how would the two of you stay togeather..I mean let's face it....job first...than if she want's to be with you..she will..but it sound's like you need to get yourself togeather first..yes it is hard..
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (2 October 2007):
 Hi,
Well your not helping yourself are you?. Sorry I dont mean to be harsh, but the married Girl will not help the dilema you are in, it will only make you feel worse. What happens when she decides to stay with her husband, which she probably will. You will be left broken hearted and still no job or money.
Maybe you should concentrate on the job situation first. Then you can make an arrangement to pay your parents back. Which will make you feel tons better.
Your friends deserting you, why would they do that?. unless they dont agree with you seeing a girl that's married. Otherwise they are not very good mates are they.
Thats how I would try to tackle the situation, Job first,then money owed and hopefully your love life will improve and all fall into place. Positive thinking.
Take care XX
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