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I feel like every guy I like is just going to use me..why can't I trust?

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Question - (10 February 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 February 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

Help! I have this classmate and he's real annoying, but last night, after i cried to him over the phone about my boyfriend, he texted me and asked if he could court me. Was he waiting for me to break up with my boyfriend? Coz i think he was... Does he really like me or is he just taking advantage of my depressed state? And i like this other guy from my school but the people here at dearcupid thinks that he's only after sex and im afraid that he might turn out to be like my current boyfriend whom im gonna break up with very soon... what should i do? i feel like every guy whose ever gonna be with me is just gonna use me. I cant trust anyone anymore! And this classmate is my friend and i dont wanna ruin our friendship...

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A female reader, chav123 +, writes (10 February 2006):

well think to yourself is it worth risking are friendship for love I think it is really up top you and ask yourself as well has he used someone before you know and there were friends before hey girl I know what it is like but some guys can be really nice how much do ya like do ya like him so much is worth risking losing your friendship after he or ya self dumps each other and is he the type who would use ya and not be ya friend after use are not ging out any more all I can say if he nice and fit and a good friend he might be a good boyfriend to ya frm chav123

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2006):

give it a shot but dont sleep with him straight away. wait till your sure he doesnt just want sex. wait until you have built the trust in your relationship. your current relationships have not been very successful because you are still young and you havent found the one person for you, you shouldnt let this stop you from searching for someone who is right for you.

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