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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:up until recentally i looked a bit geeky and awkard and i used to get a bit picked on at school. but at this stage i had a very close group of friends who are all girls. we used to always do stuff together at the weekend. but in the last 6 months i know this sounds really cheesy but i guess ive blossomed. i get compliments a lot and a lot of attention from men in the street- although none of them are my age so arent really potientally boyfriends. i dont get picked on at all and i feel a lot more condifent. but my friends are more distant it kind of feels like they are leaving me out, they do stuff at the weekend that im not invited to and at school they have all these in jokes. do think its connected? and how do i get my friends back? Reply to this Question
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reader, Xx-Scorpio-xX +, writes (10 June 2011):
 Once you started getting more attention, did you start acting differently around your friends, as if you are better than them or boasting about your new found attention slightly? If so then this could be the case and if you want your friends 'back' then a sincere apology would be best. :)
If not, then maybe you could just tell them casually that you've begun feeling more left out recently and ask why. They could also be jealous if they're the sort who never get attention and who are usually picked on.
Good Luck ^_^
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