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I feel it's always me trying to sort our relationship out...

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Question - (6 August 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 August 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have recently told my boyfriend about this website as i thought it would help him, and i accidentally came across his question and now i don't know what to think. As he is excusing me of not allowing him to go out with his mates which yes i admit i use to but this was about 6 months ago, i don't like his mates don't get me wrong because they influence him, but i now have got over the fact i cant control him and i do let him go out with his mates i dont have a problem with it no more. But for some reason he still feels like he has to lie to me about it as what he put within one of these questions.

But the reason being is a few weeks ago i went into doncaster with my mother shopping, and his mother lives down there as well and so does one of his one mates. The reason am getting to is that i saw My boyfriend as he walked straight by with his friend and also pushing a pram?! im sorry but this really upset me. Also he wasn't going to tell me about meeting up with his mate, and then what hurt me was that he wouldn't even leave his mate to come see me while he and i was in doncaster. yes i was admittedly mad but i wanted to talk to him to sort it... Also on this dear cupid, he put that we don't talk and we dont have sex, i try and talk to him all the time about his life his problems when he upset but yet he feels like he cant. Also the sex?! I didn't have sex with him for about 7 months due to the fact i felt uncomfortable as he slept with someone else. Which is understandable, but i have recently started sleeping with him again and he is complaining about it. What am i honestly doing wrong within this relationship, i feel that it is always me trying to sort our relationship out :| ill appreciate all your advice thanks

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010):

You are way to young for all this drama and need to be more focused on school and a career.

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