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writes:I am 41, and have had urges, shall we say, over the last few years toward younger women...mostly in the 26-32 age range. That's roughly a 9-15 year age difference. I seem to still be very attracted to 27 year olds. I dunno...I think they're older, strike up a friendship, become sexually obsessed, tehn find out their young. I had a bad experience a few years back...totally fell for a 25 y.o. when I was 39. She did not feel mutually, and I went through a 6 month long witdrawal to get over the loss. I haven't had romantic relations with any of these women (maybe 4 or 5 of them)...just intense sexual attraction.How creepy or unusual is this? I might like to strike up a relationship with one, but I'm afraid of being called the "creepy guy" again. I'm a very fit, attractive male, so these women DO flirt...sometimes a lot. I'm confused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2010): Um, unless there is something you are not telling us, I don't find the age gap to be that weird. Women in their late twenties are just that, WOMEN. They are adults just like you. So no I don't find that weird. I am in my late twenties, recently met a professor in his late 30's. He is awesome. Women in their late twenties are pretty mature and still look young. If, however, you were looking for young young like 20, I would find that weird. You would probably have nothing in common with her. But late twenties you would.
The only thing I find a bit strange is your fixation. Fixations are not good or healthy. Not only that but the fact that your "intense attraction" comes from something as, with all due respect, superficial as someone's age or what they look like due to their age is a bit odd to me. I mean if you had said that you have somewhat of a preference for, say, brunettes but what really drives you toward a woman is an intelligent one or a driven one. Just something with a little more substance, then that would seem a bit more legit to me. But an intense attraction based on a age group? And that's it? It just sounds like something a 16 year old would say not a 41 year old man...
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reader, andy1995  +, writes (2 July 2010):
its completely natural for people to like woman in this age group whatever age, you can join a dating website and try to date someon around 35-40 and if it does'nt work out try and find someone around 30
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (2 July 2010):
 I fall in that age range, at least for 3 more years, then I am no longer spring chicken. There is nothing creepy wanting to date younger women. 26-32 is the prime fertile age for a woman. Other than that women are just women. It's when you ogle over tits and ass, can't handle rejection, act like a stalker, talk and not care if they are interested, then you'll be labelled creepy. Don't give up because of one bad experience. Many women like older guys. I don't think I am too much different from you in thinking and feeling, so if you care too much about the age gap you will make me feel like a little girl. You should instead realize how much common you have even with women 10 years younger than you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2010): Well I'm only 16 but I don't find this creepy. The heart wants what it wants. I'd you find a women that treats you nice then have fun(:
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