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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I think I have a problem. I am still attracted to my partner but we hardly ever have sex and to be fair we take it in turns to say no to each others advances-meanwhile I have developed an unhealthy appetite for pornography. It makes me feel ill afterwards and I don't know what to do-surely a young woman of my age should be interested in sex with a guy!! what's wrong with me? please get back to me
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reader, Dee2707 +, writes (5 January 2009):
 Firstly, you do NOT have a problem, so there is no need to think like that. Perhaps the relationship is losing its spark through lack of sexual intimacy and now its reached the point where you've become used to not having it in your relatioship, there are ways you can feed it back into your relationship. Perhaps start to get to know one anothers bodys again before you go straight into sex and then you will realise there is still sexual attraction. Pornography is perfectly natural, both men and women are regular watchers of porn and you shouldnt feel ashamed, perhaps the pornography could be a substitute for the initimacy you and your boyfriend are not sharing, why not try to encorporate the things you watch in to your sex life with your boyfriend and find new ways to get the fire burning again, for example new underwear. But please remember there is nothing wrong with you. I hope i have helped. Good Luck. Dee :)
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