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I feel if I don't succeed in school, others will be disappointed in me! What can I do?

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Question - (27 February 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 March 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

hi people, just wondering if you could help me with this little problem i have. thing is, i've always liked school and have always had lots of friends and found it easy, but recently i've been struggling. because i did well in my sats in yr6 and i'm in top sets for everything now i'm in yr9 lots of people expect highly of me, but i just feel like i'm falling backwards with the work. my gcse's are coming up now as well and that's just adding to my mound of pressure too. i feel like i have to do well otherwise everyone will be shocked and disappointed at me. what can i do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2006):

Thanks for your cool answers people! I've done the exams, and passed with straight A*'s! I just want to say how much your advice helped me and thank you so much, I was thinking about your answers when I revised and when I was taking the test, and it helped soooo much! And hey, you're right, no-one's disappointed with me!

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A female reader, ladybaby +, writes (28 February 2006):

It's never too late! I was in set 1 for everything during my GCSEs and was frankly doing absolutely awful in Maths. In my Mocks, the Christmas before my GCSEs I got 7% which was a complete blow to my confidence. I asked to be moved down a set, because I had a better chance of getting a grade, let alone a decent one on 2nd tier. The minute I moved, it was like a whole world had been lifted from my shoulders.

And that summer I got the highest grade I could for that paper - a higher grade pass C!

But hey that's year 11. Year 9 is quite a yucky year, because you are just getting to the stage of choosing subjects etc... talk to your parents about how you feel - you'll be pleasantly surprised I'm sure.

Secondly don't think too much about what career you want at the moment, think of the subjects you enjoy. Do you prefer languages or the arts, or more vocational courses. I chose languages although I didn't have a clue what I wnated to do (still don't), but I knew I enjoyed languages up to then. I managed to get excellent grades. My brother chose carpentry, and although now he's studying Business Management in Uni now, he is very pleased he did carpentry, although he won't use it as a career, he has excellent skills for a hobby he enjoys.

So don't fret too much, if you feel you want to drop a grade, then chat to your form tutor, and they'll support you I assure you!

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A female reader, chav123 +, writes (28 February 2006):

girl just try your best thats the only key to sucess I am a failer but you are so brainy I know you will do well and I hope my pridition are correct all I can say is just keep on reviseing I dont revise at all and I am in bottom set please tell me if you have done well no one will disappointed with you .you just tryed your best good luck

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