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writes: My boyfriend and I have be going out for just over a year. Recently he has been going out alot with the boys on a Sunday to watch footie and we never go out on Saturday because he is saving himself for the Sunday. We spend about 2 nights a week together and I just feel this last while that I have been left out and that he has been a bit selfish and never considers what I may want to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (23 March 2006):
 When that buzz of first getting with someone wears off, couples can get in a rut and get a bit bored with each other. I think you're right to be questioning him about this; after all, you're his girlfriend and you deserve the majority of his attention. I'm not saying he should never see his friends, but he has to start making more of an effort to spend time with you, as you are obviously feeling a bit neglected at the moment.
Now, you need to sort this out now before it all gets too much and you end up in a big row over it. Talk to him; tell him you feel pushed out and that if you don't get more attention from him and you two don't start to work on each other's happiness, you're walking to find someone who will make you feel the way you want to.
I'm sure he's not doing this maliciously, I think he may just be getting a little too cosy with the whole relationship and thinks he can forget about you when he has a better offer. Let him know how you feel and if things don't change, you know what to do. Good luck.
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