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I feel envious at people who have slept with much younger girls...

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Question - (9 December 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 December 2009)
A male Russian Federation age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Ok, This is how it is. I'm 17 years old and I've seen many people around my age have sex. I'm still a virgin and I really feel envy at people who can have sex with those young girls [15 or 16 years old girls] I seem to be a really horrible person but that's how I feel. I mean it's really unfair that they can have sex with young girls but I will never. I'm so jealous now and no one understands how I feel. Well I don't want to be an innocent boyfriend when I grow up. And also it's so depressing knowing that in the future I will have a girl who has slept with guys when she was younger than me. It hurts me so bad !!!!

Now I can't sleep, please help !

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (10 December 2009):

RAINORFIRE agony auntIm confused about something do you want a young girl or a virgin to sleep with? Any way it shouldnt matter theres more important things to be thnking about sex leads to all knds of problems its better to be a virgin then to have an std or to get a girl pregnant or be acused of statutory rape. theres no girl on the planet worth gong to jail for, guys brag about the young girls they get because well at your age lets face it what else is there to talk about besides video games and sex you dont have careers or bills to pay or a car worth bragging about so they talk about all the young girls they sleep with and its probably going to be that way for the rest of your life because thats what guys with low morals and self worth do brag.you should be nterested in a women not lttle girls and intstead of multple sexual conquest maybe you could try a sngle caring relationshp

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2009):

I think you are feeling retroactive jealousy and you don't realize it.

It is very common but not many guys will admit it because it gets no respect.

I want to tell you some advice about dealing with it but I don't know any. I have heard all the advice but none of it has ever made me feel any better.

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