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reader, smartazngirl  +, writes (7 November 2010):
 I suggest you tell her that you're not giving it back to her because you're inexperienced. Otherwise, there will be some misunderstandings.
Just try it out. :) She'll teach you along the way, don't worry.
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave  +, writes (5 November 2010):
Yes you should feel bad, get down there and get busy.
Everyone starts off inexperienced but the more you do it the more you learn and you'll find out what makes her tick.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2010): FYI: it's fecking awesome! Especially when you get it right but even when you don't it's just so much fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2010): You should feel bad for not giving but you shouldn't feel bad about being inexperienced. Google some tips and experiment on her. It will only take a few times for you to get it right as long as she lets you know what works. But you can usually tell by listening to her breathing.
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reader, sammi star +, writes (5 November 2010):
 You'll learn pretty quickly what works for her and what doesn't, believe me she'll let you know! Better to get over those nerves and learn rather than carry on taking without giving.
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reader, xanthic +, writes (5 November 2010):
 There's really no other way to get experience other than actually doing it. Try not to worry about it. Ask your girlfriend to guide you the first few times, you'll catch on soon enough.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2010): Betty B is right on pal. Dont be scared of your performance. If you love her and are emotionally attached that helps out a lot as you wanna pleasure her and will work hard to do so. Its fun too man..you can try all kinds of different things to see what she likes so u both can enjoy. Have fun. Be safe bro. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2010):
Just try to stop worrying about your perceived short-coming and inexperience and do it. There's only one way to get experience. And what to do will come naturally.
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