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writes:im 13 5'8 and 130 lbs, everyone says thats a perfect weght and you look great blah blah blah, also i have a huge problem with the way i look at myself. i always say i look ugly or fugly whatever and no matter what kind of compliments i get on myspace or in person or whatever i just cant see the "beauty". people say i have a rare look; good face structure, tan skin, green eyes, and brunette hair but i think thats a bad combonation. i just wish i could see myself the way other people doo. should i take self esteme classes?
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reader, UmmmNieve33 +, writes (10 July 2008):
 nah dude look everyone finds something wrong wiht themselves but dont let it bother you god made you that way for a reason you should focus on the good things you have and not the bad i mean think about it your 5'8 your not freaklishly tall or short your a perfect height. your 130lbs not fat yet not too skinny because that would be gross therefore you are the perfect weight. anyways god made you you, you should be happy god took the time to make you as beautiful as you are. and sence he took the time to do so you should be happy about that.
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reader, English chick!  +, writes (10 July 2008):
 Don't take it hard. Ppl always find something about themselfs to judge, i think my belly is to flubby and my mother says i'm too skinny, well that's what you get from a whole lifetime of tomato, red pepper and cucumber breakfeasts and lunches can do i guess!!! LOL!My advice just try to eat better foods and take morning jogs, there's no harm in being large of anything, my dads friends wife is really large but he's skinny and they adore each other!No harm...
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2008): centralbabe, EVERYBODY feels awkward, confused, and "ugly" at thirteen. I doubt there are many exceptions, no matter how "confident" some may appear. Hey, hon, take all the compliments you get with good grace. And believe them. They can't all be lying! Why would they(?) (lol) And your weight is fine for your hight. You may put on a few pounds in the near future, but that will be fine, too. You have a great hight for a girl (young woman) and you will probably fill out in the right places. Trust "nature" more. She usually knows what she is doing. Just don't get caught up in the "starvation" syndrome that many young women get into. Eat healthy and get out and involved in life. It is really a beautiful time for you. Enjoy, and best wishes. Tom
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