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female
age
41-50,
*eganabelle
writes: I'm a 31 year old female in a relationship with a man a couple of years younger than me. But, by far one of my most potent sexual fantasies involves far older men, usually 60+, having sex with me or other women in their 20s or 30s. Usually the older and uglier, the better.I was wondering...is it normal to have this fantasy? Does anyone else have these same feelings?
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male
reader, C. Grant +, writes (10 October 2012):
I can't begin to tell you how reassuring this post is. Bless you. ;)
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male
reader, Hennessy1989 +, writes (10 October 2012):
If its what does it for you then don't worry, it's not bad or illegal, so carry on fantasising
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female
reader, person12345 +, writes (10 October 2012):
I wouldn't say 60 is old...
But whatever floats your boat. I've heard of other women fantasizing about this, definitely not that weird.
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male
reader, MikeEa1 +, writes (10 October 2012):
I'm an ugly old man, mmnn maybe not that ugly or old. still its nice to know someone loves us. I think its unfair of youwish to mention random sex. you didn't say that. fantasies are nothing more than that. unless you want them to be. I fantasize about women. I can't decide which I prefer but I do know when I meet the right one.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (10 October 2012):
It's common for women to be attracted to older men, sure. But it's not common for a woman to say about that attraction "The uglier" unless it's either a fetish that someone's ashamed of admitting and they really don't consider older men ugly, OR they're soliciting themselves for looking for a sugar daddy on a site like Craigslist or adultfriendfinder.
I'd ask you how long you've been attracted to older guys, and what attracts you to your current younger boyfriend.
I've never had feelings of wanting random sex with senior citizens. But if it floats your boat, that's what you're into.
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