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male
age
30-35,
*helo
writes:Well, im peruvian and a girl came to my house to study abroad, she's living with me and my family. The thing is that i really like her and she also says that she feels the same way. Even though she also have told me that she loves me and I also feel the same way.The problem is that i cant be with her because eventually she will have to go, but i would like to take advantage of the time that she's gonna be here. We make out every day and also have sex.She says that im someone that im talking to her and she explain to me that is more than friends but less than being boyfriend and girlfriend. I really dont understand because in my culture even though i havent told her to be my girlfriend it would be considered like that. So, there are some rules that you shouldn't do like kiss with other people, or things like that just to respect the other person and not 'cheat' on him.I really dont understand because i know that she is making out with other guy so i dont know if thats normal in USA or if she's playing with me.I really feel that the things she says to me she really mean it.PD: sorry for my broken english, is not my native language.
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reader, Daisy_Daisy  +, writes (10 October 2012):
 Hi. I'm not from the USA (UK), but I don't think it's 'good form' or 'playing by the rules' for anyone to be sleeping with one person and making out with others. If she wants to see other people and won't stop even though you're not comfortable with it, stop having sex with her. It sounds like it's a casual sexual relationship - some people are Ok with that, others not. It's up to you to decide what you put up with.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (10 October 2012):
 she is playing with you honey it's NOT normal to be having a relationship with someone and kissing someone else.
how old is this girl?
also it's not good to be doing this if she lives with your family as if you two have a fight and split and she still lives there it will be ugly and difficult...
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