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writes:Hi everyone!I got a problem. Im 13 years old and I fancy a teacher in my school. He is really nice to me and always rubs my back or taps my head when he walks past. All my friends think he is a pervert coz of the way he acts so I just go along with what my mates say because there is no way I could ever tell them.What can i Do???? Reply to this Question
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reader, Angstxxx +, writes (22 July 2010):
Wow I can't tell u how many teacher crushes iv been through, depending on how long it's been since you started fancying him, mine hav usually gone away after a while, really don't think u should tell him it would make things really awkward just wait for it to go away, hope it helps xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2007): i also fancy my french teacher, miss lynch and i can't help it, it's a peverted problem that no-one can help, i think you should sit-down and either talk to your parents or the teacher ypu fancy
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reader, banana_pancake +, writes (3 March 2007):
 Tell another teacher that you trust to have a word with him about the touching you, because although its pretty normal and this guy probably has absolutely no intent, if it makes you uncomfortable, then just say.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2007): You don't do anything. It's not wrong to like someone, but first, it's unethical to go after a teacher at your school, and second you are 13, and third, you are under the influence and pressure of what your friends think and feel you should do.
As human beings, we have a choice in choosing what we want to do, and how to go about doing them. Just because we want to drive 200 mph down a road, it doesn't mean we should. Just because we want to try Ecstacy and see how high we can 'fly', it doesn't mean we should. Just because we want to have a drinking contest every day with our 'friends', it doesn't mean we should. Just because some of us young uns fancy our teachers, it doesn't mean we should go ahead and do anything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2007): whats the problem? i dont understand how fancying ur teacher is a problem...?"he always rubs my back..."Im sure he doesnt rub it, he just puts his hand on it maybe as a kind gesture...Sorry but ur just reading too far into some of this mans actions...U cannot just call a guy a pervert - u just cant ok?And as for u going along with it - well thats even worse!Why do u have to pretend not to like him just to please ur friends???? Anyway it doesnt sound like u fancy him at all!"He is really nice to me"Sorry but u dont fancy someone cuz they are "nice" to u!!!Leave the poor guy alone for christ sake!
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reader, Angel-Face +, writes (23 February 2007):
 hun its ok every girl n lad has a crush on a teacher at one point in their life but the touching is really weird i think you should tell your parents or someone you trust to help you with him rubbing your back and things like that coz its really weird.
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reader, PoSiOnKiSS +, writes (23 February 2007):
 You must tell him to stop it, or next time he does it ask him why he is doing that. If this man carries on you will just fall for him more, and then you both could get in serious trouble. And with your friends noticing things something is bound to get out and another teacher may be disturbed by the rumours and it wil only get worse from then on. There is no good in dating a teacher if your still in education and especially 13 years old if rumours of this did get out the police may get involved because you are under the legal age to have sex they will want to investigate to find out if you two have been having a relationship. In other words if something did happen with you two it would be illegal and because there have been so many cases where teachers and students have bonded intimatly it is bound to get into the news papers and it will just create family upset for both sides. I dont think its a good idea to start anything with this man since there is nothing positive about the whole situation so i think it would be wise if you ignored him. Hope it helps x
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2007): Listen, i've been through the same sort of thing with my mate.Unfortunetly it is completley illegal for anything to ever happen between u 2. As you are under 16, and he is 16 nothing can ever happen, untill you leave school.What will happen? If you get caught, and believe me you always do get caught...your teacher shall be suspended and potentiall fired from your school. if he is sacked, he will never be able to work as a teacher again.Your teacher is actually being inappropiate the way he is acting towards you, he shouldnt touch you.Stop it before it goes to far.Sorry, i know its harsh, but it honestly is the best. If you still feel the same after you leave school- then yeah maybe somethiing can happen.Hope it helps.
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