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writes:Sex actually feels best when I don't cum? Am I normal? I'm a newbie to sex and have only been having it since last year. But I have done it a lot, and I honestly like sex when I don't orgasm the most. It just feels awesome, and I don't get spent or tired much. Of course I don't tell my bfs I'm not cumming, but everyone is happy so....have any other women experienced this?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (13 April 2016):
 .. Why the " of course Im not telling"???!?!?! Are you saying to lie every time you have sex? Stop it, immedeately! Good grief, you are ruining these men for other women, they will become so difficult to deal with and have sex with if they think just poking you with their penis was enough to get you to come, and poor women who ever have sex with them later on will have to hear the story about how it always worked for their ex!Why do you lie?! Do you think they care? Guys don't need YOU to have an orgasm for them to enjoy sex. I never met a guy who had a problem with me NOT reaching an orgasm, but I DID have an ex boyfriend who claimed he always gave his ex orgasms... Yeah right! She lied, just like you are. And then I was the one left sitting him down and telling him "no sweetie, you were lied to, it doesn't work like that".Be honest. Cut the bullshit. It is perfectly normal for a woman to NOT orgasm during sex. It's difficult enough as it is for us women to reach orgasm, the last thing we need is you running around misinforming men on how we work.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (11 April 2016):
 Off course you are normal, most women don't climax during intercourse anyway, most pretend that they do, but most still enjoy it just as much. You are still young, so it is good to explore and find what you like and what you don't, remember we are all different.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (11 April 2016):
 Tantric sex is about the bond two people have and it doesn't HAVE to end in orgasm. It's not about the orgasm.
You should read up on it, it might be right up your alley :)
But yes, women can definitely enjoy sex without hitting a climax. If they are with a GOOD lover.
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reader, Windbreeze_1962 +, writes (10 April 2016):
 Yes, you are normal to enjoy sex without having an orgasm. Some women do not have an orgasm during sex and some women fake having an orgasm to make the man believe he is really doing something. I feel faking an orgasm is really sparing the man’s feelings which is not a good or bad thing.
But some women just love that intense and feeling good sensation that they know by having an orgasm will end it. And yes we all have held it when it starts to get real good.
You are a young lady you will explore many ways to feel the same sensation just before an orgasm on your own. Take care and be safe.
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reader, aunt anna wilson  +, writes (10 April 2016):
 Hun I don't cum anyway during normal sex so I understand however I do with oral which I love either way unfortunately you will tire of it eventually women usually do. I'm going to be a bore use protection ??
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