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female
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anonymous
writes:here goes, I was going out with guy not too long ago and due to numerous different reasons we didn't tell anyone, he said that he loved me and I was special to him and meant alot, he also sent me lots of nice texts ect, and I really really liked him, and I think given a little bit longer I would have been able to say I loved him. However as no one knew my friend started to like him and so I didn't know what to do, she got his number and msn and was talking to him loads and flirting with him, one night he flirted back abit and tod her not to tell any one what he said, but been good mates with me she told me and wanted to knnow if i thought she had a chance ect ect. I was upset, annoyed but mostly frustrated, I just told her I didn't know and changed the topic. I confronted him about it and he said sorry, it didn't mean anything and he'd not do it again. I asked him to text her saying that he just wanted to be friends, he did and she told me what he'd said.Anyway after that things were not back to normal for me, there were for him but I just didn't feel the same, after a couple of days I told him that I didn't think the same about him now and just wanted to be friends. He said that was okay and we talk to each other every day on msn now, and see each other most days but dont talk face to face now. Sometimes he will talk to me about a girl or somthing and I will jokingly say somthing like "do you think your talking to someone else or something lol" and he normaly replies with "we're friends arent we, I'm just having friendly banter" At first it bugged me a little but then it didn't, but today I've been thinking about him alot, and I can't seem to get him out of my head, and I want to be with him, I think that I do still realy realy like him, lots. I don't know what to do please help, do you think there'd be any chance he still likes me or would I just wind up getting hurt or somthing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2009): Hiya, if i were you id just go for it, tel him how u feel, he told you that he loved you, love isnt a word boys say alot so there's got to be somethin there. If things do work out make it official!! tel everyone and live your lives dont hide things then people wont try to flirt with him. Good luck sweety x
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