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writes:hello, i need some advice, ive been with a guy for 2 years, hes my first boyfriend, and it started really good and i moved in with him within a few months, but recently ive been felling like i want more. i dread having sex with him because i dont enjoy it. i dont know what to do? should i finish it, when i still have feelings for him and he treats me realy well?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2009): Be honest with him- tell him you don't enjoy it and try and work out the problem together. I'm sure he'll understand and he is totally oblivious to the fact that you don't like it. Good luck!
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reader, Heartbroken in love  +, writes (14 October 2009):
if you don't enjoy it then you have to figure out why you don't enjoy it. figure it out then figure out if it something that can be fixed
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2009): Hi, First you need to ask yourself.. "what don't you like about the sex". Then..Tell him; but be nice! If there is something you like then he needs to know. Men love when you tell them what to do in bed. Sex isn't the most important thing in the relationship, but it is something that makes you closer to each other. You should look forward to being with him and if you're not then it might be best to take a break and figure out what you really want. Good luck.
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (14 October 2009):
if you don't enjoy it then you have to figure out why you don't enjoy it. figure it out then figure out if it something that can be fixed
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reader, Roboaxe +, writes (14 October 2009):
 You need to figure out if you still like him or not. If you still have STRONG feelings for him, sex can get better, just be more specific with what you want. If when you are not with him, you find yourself looking at other guys, perhaps your relationship has fizzled. 2 years is a long time, and since this is your first boyfriend, you may feel obligated to stay with him in order to avoid being alone. But remember that being single is better than being in a relationship you kind of want to end, I have been there.
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reader, adamskidude  +, writes (14 October 2009):
 I'd love to know WHY you dont enjoy sex, i think that would class as very useful info.If you dont enjoy it for physical reasons mention it to your lover and you can try and work it out.If for some reason its an emotional problem, try to talk the problem out.Maybe after 2 years sex has just become a chore and you need to spice it up a little, bring the passion back. I leave that bit to your imagination kthxbai ^^
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