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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am 15 and have never had a proper boyfriend. I am not completly worried about this as i love having so many great friends that are boys. Recently i have noticed that this one boy (lets call his bob) has been constantly looking at me and blushing and turning away when i turn around. I like him too, but don't wan't to make the first move in case it ruins our friendship. I realise that he may be feeling the same way or could just be shy. He seems like a really great guy, what should i do?
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reader, Lila  +, writes (6 October 2007):
 When you talk to him only slighty touch him,maybe gently on the shoulder,if he's receptive and leans closer,he likes you.If he pulls away and shrugs you off you're a dude to him.Either way you don't loose cool points, checking the water,if he doesn't like you he'll just think "Oh,she's a girl sometimes they touch."
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2007): i know exactly what you mean..i use to be the same way..but if you think he likes you back..go for making the first move he might be to shy to..if either of you are to shy to make a move and someone else comes along thats not afraid to then you will always be wondering what could of been between you all..i kno ive been there..so i say go for making the first move!
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reader, XxAngelDust89xX +, writes (6 October 2007):
 You'll never know until you try. If he is a true friend, then he will only be flattered by the fact that you like him. If he says no, then shake it off and act as you normally would.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (6 October 2007):
Take the risk and talk to him. Why would you think that if you talk first it will spoil the relationship? Get real.
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