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I don't want to lose this guy by sharing my feelings.

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Question - (30 August 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 August 2011)
A female Brazil age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So here's the story, my brother has this close friend and I've had a crush on him for like 3-4yrs. I don't know if this is infatuation but whatever it is it's really strong, and i'm not the emotional type..

I've had relationships with other men but for some reason I can't seem to get him out of my mind. It's annoying really. I compare EVERY guy to him. We talk on and off with each other and he's really sweet.Thing is recently we've been texting each other more frequently and I think he's starting to view me as his friend...

He's asked me about my past relationships and I've learnt a lot about him...I want to tell him so badly about my feelings towards him but I'm afraid I'll lose him....but then again if I don't tell him it'll always weigh on my mind....I'm lost, I just want to clear my mind. I know he's loyal to my brother but I can tell he's somewhat attracted to me...so do I risk it and tell him or not?

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A male reader, pagan1 United States +, writes (31 August 2011):

look maybe he hasent asked you out because of being your brothers friend, well its time to grow up, text him ask him to go to a scary movie with just you, snuggle up to him

you know your comfortuble together let him know how you feel, he might feel the same, he may not, at least you will know he was just a fantasy. just do it!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2011):

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It's hopeless isn't it...If he only knew how much I like him.

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