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writes:my boyfriend of 7 months has told me nearly every day since Christmas that he loves me and I find it hard to say it back! I do love him, really I do but I just not so much get embaressed but I don't know what it is, I just find it hard, what do I do?HELP!Also I have loads of male friends as I DON'T tend to get on with girls my age. I have been brought up mostly around boys and find I can be more myself around them but there are two main boys I am with every day but since I moved to live with my dad we keep in contact by visiting each other 1 a week or text or phone call and he doesn't like it and gets mad. I ask him why he says he doesn't like me talking to other boys. What can I do? I don't want to lose either of them, friends or boyfriend.What can I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008): You can't let your boyfriend stop you being friends with who you are, just explain to him that to you they are the equivalent of being girls and you would never do anything bad with them. He's just jealous, and you have to think of it as a bit of a compliment more than a problem, as long as you assure him nothing is going on and he needs to trust you - and if you stopped being friends with them you'd be unhappy- then everything should be okay.
A good way of doing this would be telling him you love him. I know exactly how you feel about being scared to say it...even when you mean it. It just seems a strange thing to come out with for the first time, but once you have said it once it will be fine. Why not do something really stupid like give him a plate of alphabetti spaghetti saying I LOVE YOU, or write it on a piece of paper and give it to him. As long as you don't say it over text or email when you aren't together I think that would be nice.
But that may just sound horribly soppy to you. xxx
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (5 February 2008):
 Your b/f has to grow up..He cannot shut you up from your world.
If it comes to a head, then you will have to choose, his world or your world.
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