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I don't want to just lie there! What do I do?

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Question - (25 March 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 March 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've had sex before but im usually always on the bottom just lying there. I just lay there not doing any thing it was good and all but. How do i turn the moves on him!

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A female reader, BettyBoup United Kingdom +, writes (25 March 2011):

BettyBoup agony auntOR you could always ask him what he would like to try? He might be inexperienced to and you can try new things together.

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A female reader, BettyBoup United Kingdom +, writes (25 March 2011):

BettyBoup agony auntTry to switch roles. What he normally does, you do. If he initiates first and goes on top, next time don't let him. Take control of the situation, he will love it. Switch positions. Ask him to do smething different or show him a different position. If you are unsure of what else you can do, buy a good book from amazon or find a page on the internet. I think the cosmopolitan magazine website has a page on sex positions. I'm sure you can get some ideas there.

Good luck

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