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writes:I really, really, really like this boy...it verges on love, of what I know of it!! And even better, I think he likes me, he practically admitted it but neither of us would say the words out straight...anyway, the problem comes in the fact that he's going out with my best friend...He's my best friend as well, probably more than she is but I couldn't ever say that because it wud be wrong and cause problems, but just so u get an idea! I dont want to split them up at all but its just really hard because I don't get much attention n the only experience I've had in relationships have been drunken one night things so to find someone I actually like and likes me back is a first! I'm jsut feeling a bit confused about how to act now, so any advice would be helpful!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou!! I really appreciate it! I really needed that clarification...I'm sure I'll get over it anyway! lol xxxx
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (24 June 2007):
 As Mandy7 says don't act on it. While this guy is with your best friend just continue being his friend. If he really likes you then he'll end it with her but it isn't fair for the pair of you to play around behind her back.
I would walk away and find somebody who's single, or just enjoy being a teenager and have fun!
You may find another lad you like who is single!
xxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2007): Hi sweety,
DONT ACT ON IT!!!!! Your best friend should be just that dont hurt her feelings, I no you say its verging on love but you also say of what you no of it!!! So think very carefully, as it may be the feeling we all have had at some point in life.... What we cant have we want and hun when we sometimes get it we find its not what we really wanted in the first place.
I no it a hard one as you probably see them together and it upsets you.. but dont make a mistake by loosing your friend over this, you will get a fella of your own one day and you would just hate the thought of this happening to you love so do the right thing by your friend TAKE CARE LOTS OF LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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