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writes:I'm in love with my best friend's girlfriend. I don't know if she loves me. My best friend said that he'd break up with her for me, but i turned him down, because i thought he shouldn't have too. I then thought that maybe he just didn't love her that much. I don't want to see her get hurt, and i don't want to have a fake relationship with her. What should I do? Tell her? Or just wait?
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reader, ShouldKnowBetter  +, writes (23 March 2008):
Your mate offered to break up with her and your not sure if he loves her that much?
I am sorry, your mate obviously doesnt care about her in the slightest and the way you are talking it makes her sound like a commodity and not a person.
If you care about her like you say you do, first of all get your mate to break off the relationship (assuming it isnt a consensual no feelings thing) and dont try and catch her on the rebound. Secondly, if you dont want to hurt her then you first of all have to look at yourself, you clearly arent able to consider her feelings well enough given your question and so are likely to inadvertently hurt her if not intentionally.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008): this is the person hoo wrote this and i'm actually 13-15
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