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*azzedUp
writes:Last night I had a terrible dream. It was a dream in a dream, so I went to sleep and woke up to a dream that was some likeness of the Denver I live in. In that dream I went to sleep and had a dream that my last girlfriend told me she wanted me back. In the dream she said she missed me, she hugged me and she kissed me. Finally she invited to her house and we started everything over anew. I woke up from that dream and started looking for her but couldn't find her, then I woke up to reality shortly after and was heartbroken when I realized it had only been dreams.Now I you may think I'm being childish and should just let her go and move on. But the problem is, I never really missed her, i just knew she was gone forever. Now that I got reminded of how great being with her was, I can't stop crying. I'm afraid to sleep because I don't want to have another nightmare about her. I just need to know what to do about the dream. Can anyone help me? It's driving me crazy...
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reader, dirtball +, writes (15 September 2010):
 Unfortunately you can't control what you dream about. It just doesn't work that way. I find that my dreams usually revolve around things I've had on my mind a lot. Also, an exercise I use to get to sleep sometimes is to start a dream. Lucid dream something and sometimes it will carry over into your actual sleeping dreams.
Another thing would be to work out your issues surrounding the breakup. It sounds like you never dealt with them, and maybe this is your subconscious's way of telling you it's time for some closure.
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