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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey i recently posted http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-you-think-i-still-have-a-chance.htmland no one seemed to reply. i have: I rang him today, and asked him out on Tuesday, he said he didn't know what he is doing for Tuesday so I just need to ask him on the day... so far so good ? :l then there was an awkward silence on the phone before he said he will talk to me later and said bye.im still weary if we have another chance at things. he hasnt been online for me to ask, i dont wanna text or ring because i may come across clingy what next?
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reader, straight to the truth +, writes (17 November 2008):
I haven't read the first question but in response to what you have put here i would say move on. If someone says ask on the day because they dont know what they are doign sounds a lot like " i will wait to see if something better comes along and if it doesn't then i might see you".
The only time someone can get away with saying something like this is if they have other plans which are not completely confirmed and they say " i am meant to be doing this but if it doesn't go ahead then yes i would love to see you"
Also you shouldn't have to chase and text him on the day, you will be keeping your day free on the off chance he might make time for you. well i would suggest make different plans and let him know that you are not just waiting around for him and you do have better things to be doing with your time.
You are worth more than that! be strong and dont jump at the click of his fingers.
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