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writes: i love my bf sooo much,n he said he also love me..but we live 2 other country.he is from uk n me from usa...we r in love from 4months.we met on net.we never meet personaly.i want to meet with him but he dont want to.n now a days he is going far away from me.he trying to make distance in our reletionship,...but dont want to breakup also..now plz help me what should i do.i just love him soo much..n i feel hurt evry moment with his changing behaviour..plzz help me. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2008): Hi I don't know if I can be of any help but I arranged to meet a guy off the net .... I have also known him about 4 months. He was being a bit on & off re contact so I emailed him and asked him nicely but quite directly if he still wanted to meet. I phrased it that 'i would still love to meet you :) but if you no longer want to or are unable :( then let me know & I'll leave it' .... i kept it as light as possible but made it clear i would love to meet him and he came back saying he DOES want to meet. i understand that you would like to know either way ... especially as travel plans needed to be made etc ... don't know if this is any help ... :)
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (16 July 2008):
Well there is not a lot you can do I'm afraid. If someone wants to break up with you then you just have to take it. Especially if you can't even talk to them face to face.
All I can advise is to get out of the house and try not to think about him.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, lovinthehubbyx +, writes (16 July 2008):
hey...!
if he does not want to meet then maybe you should re-consider your relationship because it seems to me he dosnt care for you enough to meet you!
dont put yourself through it you will keep hurting you deserve better.
give him an ultimatum were he should rather take your relationship further or he will lose you and you will see how much he cares for you then xxx
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