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writes:Dear Cupid,My Ex and I broke up when were about 14. i am now 16 and so is he, and i feel like he's grown up alot more now (we broke up because he was really immature and kind of clingy) but since we broke up, he's changed so much. like alot of people have told me that i hurt him really bad by breaking up with him and that he's just sleeping around because he feels like there's no one for him, as apparently he's still in love with me..Now i know this sounds petty and stupid, but to be honest i've always had feelings for him and i can't seem to figure out why, i just hear his voice and i get butterflies and when i get these feelings i always try and convince myself i don't like him anymore like that, but secretley i do! Anyway, we hadn't really spoken since the break up, but we got talking on a school trip the other day and i realised that i REALLY miss him! we were together for nearly a year before, and it was a harsh break up for both of us to come to terms with i guess, i just wasn't able to deal with a relationship at that age, with someone alot less mature than me. (if that makes sense). Anyway, last week i drunkenly phoned him and confessed that i still love him and want to be with him, and i remember thinking i'm not going to feel the same when i wake up.. but wierdly i did? and he was sober and i asked him what he was thinking, and he said 'i love you.' i want so bad to believe it, and im not sure if its just cos he's a guy and they act differently to girls, but like when he texts me he's sweet and says all i want to hear, but in person (hes not shy trust me) he just doesn't tend to talk as much, well he does but he acts like we're just friends, and treats me the same as his other girl mates :/.. i don't know what this means? i want to get back with him.. i'm just really scared?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2011): If he can't act the same in public as he does when you two are apart then he's not worth your time. If he really loved you he wouldn't be ashamed to show it. Talk to him and if he doesn't change then you will know whether you should be with him or not.
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