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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey, I have known this boy for ages now as we went to school together. We're now at the same college and have been flirting throughout the whole year. All of his friends have always hinted that he was into me by asking if i was seeing anyone and if i was interested in this boy etc and they always push him towards me in clubs and we get along really well. But then i recently found out that he's had a girlfriend since JANUARY! So i backed off but we still talk as friends, i just make sure to flirt less. Then my friend got a text off her boyfriend yesterday (who lives in the same house as my boy) saying that he has broken up with his girlfriend and that him and me have to happen. am i just being the rebound girl if i flirt with him again?? If anything did happen how would i know that im not just a rebound? Also i know his girlfriend and she's really nice and i wouldn't want to upset her!xx
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (9 June 2012):
 Why did he break up with his gf? was it his doing and it was because of you?
if that's the case then he broke up with her for you... that's the only time it could be workable this soon after a breakup. I agree with aunt honesty... just be his friend...
let him make the advances.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 June 2012):
 I think the best thing that you can do is to just continue to be his friend. Don't try and come on to him, just be yourself. He has literally just came out of a relationship, I am not sure how he felt about this girl or what happened but am sure he is going to need some time. I think the best thing to do is to leave it up to him to make the first move if its you he wants to be with.
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