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I don't want to be the reason why they break up, so what should I do?

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Question - (20 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 February 2009)
A female United Arab Emirates age 30-35, anonymous writes:

The guy I like has a GF and though it bothered me at first, I eventually accepted it. I've heard people say that they didn't make a cute people and that if it was me instead, it would be very cute. I'm flattered that people thought so, but I just couldn't help but feel bad for the girl and my crush. Because the girl he's with likes a different guy and only went for him because she knew him more. But she still likes him though, its just that she likes the other guy more.

Before my crush got a gf though, we used to flirt around and stuff, and he used to act like he likes me. There used to be sparkles in his eyes everytime he looked or stared at me. Now there's still sparkles but ... less.

What should I do? He keeps on staring at me and I don't want to do anything because I don't want to be the reason that they break-up. And I don't want to be the rebound girl. Advice?

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A female reader, nokutenda Zimbabwe +, writes (20 February 2009):

l think you should back away and let them be. if he really want to be with you he will break up with his girlfriend and come to you. let it be his own doing

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