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writes:So im a sophomore in highschool and my name is Allie and so is the guy, jake. I just transferred to his highschool at the beginning of this year. So i haven't knows him too long. We run in different circles so we don't REALLY talk. I'm in the more popular clique...and he's in the shy but popular clique. Anyway, so when i first transferred he would openly stare at me...but when i would try to talk to him one on one he would find some excuse to leave. He'll come and sit next to me at lunch, but won't talk to me unless i start it...and he doesn't say that much even then. Then three months ago he started ignoring me, he stopped looking at me, and avoids me. Yesterday i found out he has had a girlfriend for three months...My friend talked to him, and he said: "Ya, can you tell Allie i have a girlfriend...im not sure thoe" then when my friend asked what he thought of me he said: "I cant really say....." He is known as the "good" guy, and he hates hurting people. But my friend said he looked really torn when she asked him. so what does that mean...cuse i am completly confused...people are telling me to just leave him alone, but i honestly cant.THEN Last friday i went to an awards banquet and he was there...it was black tie so people went all out. I caught him staring at me ALOT. But everytime i tried to talk to him he would disappear. i don't know who his girlfriend is... he says he wants to keep it quiet, but i know he's not lying about having one. And i dont want to be the nasty girl who breaks two happy people up...but i've fallen pretty hard for this one. Should i just move on? Or should i just see what happens? Realy honest advice would be awesome right now...all my friends are telling me different things. thank you!!! SO SO much!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (18 March 2008):
 Backoff honey. If he wants to be with you he knows where to find you. Be the class act that you are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008): You don't want to be the nasty girl that breaks them up? Then my advice would be to back off for the moment, you're not trying to stop him, and he's starting to be unfaithful to his girlfriend. Why are you encouraging this basically? I know you like him, but you've got to know when to stop, and I fear that you don't. Come on, this isn't fair on him or his girlfriend. If you really like him, you'll value his happiness over yours. Good luck.
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