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writes:Well this is my problem my high school sweetheart and i have been dating or been together for 4yrs we have a son together. I eventually broke up with her first cause in a way i was immature saying that i needed to know if she was the one i know i was stupid to do that i loved her and still loved her. we broke up for 3 months she was seeing someone within the break up but he left her. i was also meeting other ppl i finally realized that she was the one i couldnt sleep eat wrk or do anything we finally came back together but after 4 months she broke up w me saying that she doesnt see me the same she then says that she still loves me also we had a misscarriage and thats when she changed she then told me when i wanted to know why she broke up w she says that she was dreaming about the guy she was with those three months okay the guy does weed and extacsy and doesnt work i wrk my ass off full time have nvr done drugs but there was one thing i was addicted to games but i finally quit after the break up i did see my mistake not spending much time but what is she doing is she giving me mixed signals cause right after she told me that she txted me im srry i dint mean to hurt ur feelings and i was like what and then she goes txting me there is hope we have had good times but i just need time not to see others but time for me SO I REALLY DONT KNOW???? CAN SOMEONE HELP srry for caps im just confused now really confused and i dont want to be the fall back guy and i told her that and she says im not i might be an idiot for believing that damn i dont know she was nvr like this before our first break up
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reader, jcloud13 +, writes (14 October 2009):
jcloud13 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks so much its just really hard
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reader, sf69  +, writes (11 October 2009):
From my experiance ...unfortionately I can tell you, you are right. When you get back together things are not the same. For some people things are better but only when both people put the greatest priority into the relationship. Not just the getting back together part but the long haul part. My old rule (for myself) used to be dont date the same girl twice. I broke that rule and still deal with the results. My advice is this...If you try, try hard and if you dont see the same thing then quit quickly. Good luck and keep seeking good advice. SF69
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