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I don't want to be mean to her because she is an old friend but I will lose all my new friends if I keep talking to her!

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Question - (5 August 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 August 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

okay well i have this friend from a long time ago and shes well not that pretty. i love her because shes an old friend.. but everyone hates her because shes well they say ugly and fat and etc. and shes moving back to the school.. well im the cheerleader, popular girl and stuff.. and if ppl see me hanging with her they wont talk to me and i could get kicked off the cheerleading team and lose all my new friends.. and when i was her friend.. a ate a lot.. and it was before i became a model.. and stuff..

and when she moved my life become so awesome.. i became homecoming queen and everything. and well i become hot. but shes moving back and well im trying to help her become popular and wear pretty stuff.. shes poor so i gave her some money to go shopping with me.. but idk what i should do.. shes a little weird now.. but im not a mean person.. so what should i do!??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010):

The ugly duckling was a little bit different than the others and was left out and that ugly duckling turned into the most special swan in the end.

I think you should stay freinds with her solong as she is nice to you aswell. Is she funny is she clever at anything else that you could impress your friends with. You could be the pretty one and your freind may have other special qualities where you can all be freinds together. We are all different i agree with what the other aunt says..if you are so popular then you will be able to help her fit in.

Always remember PRETTY is always PRETTIER when it's treating other people nice, if you treat somebody bad you are not pretty.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010):

i dont think you should ignore her or stop being friends with her.remember that she was your friend before any of your new friends. be there for her because if your not youll feel bad about yourself. make her part of your crowd.if your popular it shouldnt be so hard.

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