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writes:Hi I'm in a bit of a tricky situation...Here goesWell I've been with my girlfriend for about 3 months now. I've been thinking about my ex alot. We decided to meet up and go for a walk and chat. We really have strong feelings for each other. She tells me she loves me and I love her too. It's just Well I have a Girlfriend and I dont want too feel like a user/bastard if I just leave her...She has a BF as well but she tells me that she does'nt think her relationship is worth anything and thinks it will come to a end. I really like my GF alot shes lovely and soo friendly...Please help with this I'm really stuck on what to do..Thanks for your time xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2007): I know this is a difficult situation, but perahps a positive one. Sometimes you just don't know what you got till it's gone! Perhaps the break up between your and your ex allowed each other to realise what you had? Sure you had a break, but perhaps it's what you needed?? Discuss this with your ex, tell her how you feel, and ask if there's ever the possibility of rekindling what you had. If you have strong feelings for your ex, but still with your new girlfriend, it isn't going to be a healthy realtionship. Perhaps tell her that whilst you care for her, you're not sure where things are going. You don't have to tell her you're getting back with your ex at all! Be tactful and things should work out. Best of Luck
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reader, TomWilkinson +, writes (22 November 2007):
 Who initiated the walk? Be careful, this could quite easily be a case of "jealous ex syndrome", if she told you first that she still loves you and that her relationship isn't going to work, there's a good chance she just doesn't want to see you with anyone else.
However, you have to do what makes you happy, so you have to make a decision, you're going to have to upset one person here, and she is your ex for a reason. In my experience, going back to the ex never works.
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reader, muffy  +, writes (22 November 2007):
 hunney you have to choose and you know it.you say your ex gf has feelings for you and you have feelings for her too.but you also say that your gf right now is lovely and friendly.well it sounds a lot like one of my problems but its not about me its about you.so anywyas,just think,if you really miss your ex gf and wanna be with her,and yet you love your previous gf,think how you would feel if you broke up with your gf now that you say is soo friendly and lovely,then you would still have the same situation because you would miss her lovelyness and friendlines.so what you really have to do is go with the one you love the most and get over the other one because therr is nothing else you can do.i hope i helped but make sure you think b4 you do anythinglove and kisses
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