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writes:im in a relasonship which is really good and im happy in it we are even getting married soon but iv'e got this friend whom i have known before i met my partner and this friend as a girlfriend the problem is that iv'e loved this friend since the day i met him well at least i think it's love i get butterflys wen i see him or hear his name and just the thought of him makes me smile also when i feel down i'll get a text from him and be happy all of a sudden.he knows how i feel well he knows that i fancy him and his never said that he doesnt like me when iv'e asked but his never said that he does. the thing that confusses me is that we text each other and our texts are always flirty and he as even said that he wants to sleep with me but we have friends in commen and when we go out to a event his there with his girlfriends and he dont even say hello i know his girlfriend has told him he cant talk to me but his all over her it's like he does it on perpose.dose he like me or not because im really confused i don't know what to do i dont want to be his back up plan helllllllllllllp me please.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (23 August 2010):
 His public displays while you're around are for the benefit of his GF. It's to make her confident that he doesn't have feelings for you, which he likely does.
The questions posted by the others are very important though. You don't seem to vested in your relationship. Even though you say you're getting married, you don't even mention your fiance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2010): You're afraid that YOU'LL be the backup plan?
What do you think you're doing to your boyfriend/fiance? If you think this other guy is the one you love then why hold onto your boyfriend/fiance? Let him go before you hurt him more.
If you want to put all your time and effort into this other guy, then do it at your own risk and be prepared for the consequences (and no, he doesn't seem like he loves you enough back if he's still with his girlfriend).
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2010): You already have a relationship. He already has a relationship. Back off and stop messing around with innocent people's hearts. There is a man who is busy adoring only you while you're off frolicking with some guy who seems to just be using you to make himself feel better.
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