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*ulliepeter
writes:hey i am a bit confused here i would appreciate your help...i started seeing this guy..just hooking up for lunchdates and coffee and it reached a point where he invited me to his house and we even had sex...my major concern is that i dont know what we are doing i really like him and i want a relationship with him..he calls me almost daily but ssometimes when i text him he doesnt reply and the next day acts like i dint even text him..i really wanna ask whatz going on but also am afraid i might look like am pushing things what do i do..
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2013): Have you discussed where you both stand regarding a relationship? Do either of you want one, or just come out of one? From what you've said, I think he's presuming you're both on some FWB set- up- you haven't discussed if you're exclusive but you meet up, and sometimes end up having sex... So for all you know he could be doing that with however many girls... Sorry but if nothing's established it's likely just hooking up for fun. Like "iamheretohelp" said, I agree that you should really feel comfortable with asking people honest questions like that if you're guna sleep with them. You deserve to know! It's NOT pushy to want to know someone's intentions are, and if you want to go along with anything!Again like Iamheretohelp said meet up somewhere where you won't end up having sex- preferably day fro coffee. Not a bar/ restaurant where you could end up inebriated.You have every right to guard your mind, your body and your heart. Who else is guna if you won't? Remember that. And if you let people use or degrade you, often they will. There's a lot of w**ke** out there. Take care x :)
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (2 September 2013):
 A guy looking for a relationship makes sure you know so you won't be dating others. He calls daily but doesn't text. Maybe he is not a texter. You can just ask him in general and curiously, if he has a girlfriend, or is he looking for a relationship.
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