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writes:Hi I need some help! I wrote a message last week in regards to how my boyfriend wanted to slow things down between us! He dumped me last thursday night and it really hurt because he said to me that i wasn't good enough for him! He is on benefits and i am working and i was very good to him i spoiled him rotten and my best wasn't good enough for him! I am heading out this weekend with my friends and i am scared about seeing him! Wot will i do if i do see him! I don't want him to know that i still love him and i miss him like mad! Please can someone help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2007): If you see him out then hold you head up high and keep on walking. He has the nerve to say that you are not good enough for him, more like the other way around. You are well rid of him and you deserve better. You will meet someone in the future, but not right now. Right now go out and have the time of your life with your mates, you are young and don't need or want to be tied down, especially with someone who has the brains of a shrew!!! Enjoy life and just ignore the silly idiot! He is the one who has missed out - big time. Enjoy your nights on the town, go for it girl!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2007): Hi. I'm in a similar situation. Not too similar, but similar enough. From what you have said, he is not for you! You probably only miss him as he became a habit and in reality, you know you can do a lot better than him. Go out and enjoy yourself or even sit in and enjoy yourself. Enjoy your own company and spend time with your close friends. You dont need him and when you see him again, you will feel better about yourself and wont feel like you 'need' him so much. IN reality, you dont need anyone. Wait for a guy to come along who treats you right and as an equal. We are all here for you and although its hard to let go, its always for the best and hey, its not so scary after all. Youll be relieved in a few weeks, i guarantee!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2007): He said you're not good enough for him? He's the one on benefits not you, sounds like he's got the green eyed monster to me. With any luck girl you won't see him out, hopefully he hasn't got any money to go out. Forget him, until he can sort himself out with a job and more respect for you. You spoiled him and tried your best, find someone who can appreciate you, not some loser who wants you to feel as miserable and useless as he. Go have fun with your friends as hard as it maybe at the moment.
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