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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I still realy like my ex but he is with someone else.We were together for a couple of months but I really liked him. He cheated on me with a girl, I would have still forgiven him but he ended it with me to be with her. A couple of months later he was having arguement with his girlfriend. He kissed me again and done other things with me, I feel guilty but I like him. Does this mean he still likes me?He says he is gonna break up with his ex coz he has had enough of her, I don't wanna get back with him but would it be wrong to do things as mates? Or is it better just to leave things and don't give in to temptaion?I don't want him to think I'm easy but he is very fit. Wot do I do????
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reader, bee-ess-2007 +, writes (11 August 2007):
 One thing, read a few lines of this and looks dont matter that muchIt's whats inside that counts?Ask yourself these questionsdid he care for you? - the way he lies and cheated on you, I dont think soDid he cheat on you? yesDid he leave you for the girl he cheated on you with? yesDid he lie?- well, he cheated so yeah, he went behind your back and cheated!Overall, you should be glad he left you.... can't you see how much of a pr**k he is. Your the one thats great and I've not seen a pic of you or anything but you seem like a lovely person and if you think this guy is right for you you got another thing comingForget about himlet him see he isnt hurting you when you pass him on the street honestly ull do good with out him he is just waisting your time so get back out theyr and find mr right the funny sweet kind guy maybe with a few good looks but the real man is inside and thats what you look for not the fit gorguss hunk of one night stand!!!!!
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reader, Baroness Romero +, writes (11 August 2007):
 His good looks are flattering to you, it makes you feel good that a fit guy likes you but at the end of the day, he doesn't respect you and looks aren't the be all and end all. I'd much rather have someone who respects me and has passable looks than an adonis who doormats me.DON'T EVER consider him for a long term relationship. He's a no gooder and will always deceive you and give you heartache. He isn't mature enough for a serious relationship yet and it seems he can't make his mind up about what he wants. He has found fault with you (and the other girl) before and ended it and he will do it again and again.If you do decide to have another fling with him, treat him like he treats his girlfriends and have a fun summer and make it casual - a stop gap until someone BETTER comes along.The only danger of dating him again is that you could become closer to him and it will then be harder each time you break up. Goodness knows why you would want to be with someone like that is beyond me though.At the end of the day, it sounds to me like you are a 'fit' girl yourself for him to find you attractive anyway in which case you shouldn't have any trouble getting someone else who will respect you and is more deserving of you.
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reader, missconfused  +, writes (10 August 2007):
 i agree with the other 2 girls leave him and get away he's trying to bust a good one do her do you dont degrade yourself with someone like that and one thing is what he says another is what he does remember actions speak louder than words
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (10 August 2007):
 As long as hes fit thats all that matters.
Hehe im kiddin! No this guy is playing you & his current girlfriend both at the same time. He dumps her, gets with you, dumps you, gets with her. What a fun summer hes got in store!
I would delete his number & lose the immature idiot.
C xxxxx
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