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writes:well, let me tell you a story. it will be short. so, basically, she broke up with me, she said she still loved me, i made countless mistakes, now she hates me. she didn't want to talk to me until today, accusing me of something i didn't do. i went along with it. it ended up with me asking for friendship, in witch she said maybe, if i stop being an ass, and stop flirting with my friends crushes, and stop lying. this is after i said i was over her. i clearly am not, so what i want to know, is there a way i can hint that i am not without her getting mad at me for lying, and get her back in the process? because i went from being hated, to a maybe in a week, and i don't know if she just said that because she still has feelings for me or because she thinks im over her. either way, i want her back, but i dont want her to think i am over her.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 July 2010):
My man, you've made too many mistakes, and this will not work out. Ever. Even if she did know, this is something that won't be fixed. You need to let this one go, focus on being a decent guy and then in the future, not make the same mistakes. Because, let's face it, she'll just say you lied to her yet again.
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reader, johannabanana +, writes (23 July 2010):
 You need to just give her time or she isn't going to take the news well. Give her space be her friend. Let tie pass and heal things between you. Always be there for her and show her you can be depended on. What is meant to be will be.
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