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30-35,
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writes:well i like a girl but shes got a boyfriend and my friend has told me that i should move on from her which i am doing. i met this girl at a friends party in february and i decided to speak to her for the first time since on facebook this afternon. we go to the same college but do different things so we were talking about our college courses and i found out that we both find something interesting about what shes studying at college. we got on well and talked alot.i want to be friendly to her because our mutual friend is having another party at the end of may so i just want to be friendly and then if it escalates then great but how do i make her feel that i'm not desperate for a girlfriend and that i'm just a nice guy?also what should i do if i have already spoken to her earlier on in the day what should i say to her? should i just carry on the earlier convosation?thanks guys
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reader, Philips +, writes (15 May 2011):
 When i guy is desperate, the girl senses it. But she will not tell it. Its a gut feeling they have.
Some girls capitalise on it and use the guy for their advantage, some put a big cross on the boyfriend possibilities and just try to be friendly, others run away(most cases) as they know they can get a better deal elsewhere.
The ideal is; You should realise that happiness can be acheived without a girl. Their are other person that might be important in your life, don't ignore them. When you are at ease with your surroundings, then the girl will feel at ease with you and this can lead to more than friendship.
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