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writes: two years ago a girl and i really liked each other, each night we would text each other. after a while she aquired a new number but i never bothered to ask her for it. i dream about her a few times per week and never seem to forget about her. i dont seem to be interested in any girls apart from her. she leaves school this year and i want to know if i should ask her for her number. one of her friends asked me if i still fancied her a year later but i lied by saying no. i often catch her looking at me in class. do you think she likes me now after two years as i always seem to see her glancing at me and i always see her close to me no matter where i am. she has shown me pictures of her pet horse in classes. i have thought about asking one of her friends for the girls number but i think this may alarm her by thinking i am stalking her. one of my friends gave me her mobile number last time and i surprised her by sending a romantic text and we started talking from that point. if i was to get her new number what should i say on the phone because i always panic and run out of things to talk about.
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reader, Hopeful +, writes (7 June 2006):
 If she was texting you back, is still chatting to you, sharing parts of her life with you and looking at you in class, it is not unreasonable to ask her for her new phone number.
I would say, "Can I confirm your number, I think I only have your old one?".
It sounds like she is keen and I think worth asking her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2006): I dont think that it will seem at all like you are "stalking" this girl... If you ask for her number and then send her a message, or call her, that is a perfectly normal thing to do if you like someone. If she has liked you all this time then she may have been hurt that you didn't ask for her number 2 years ago, and pleasantly surprised when you do now. The second to worst thing that could happen is that you tell her how you feel and she does not feel the same, the worst thing would be to spend the rest of your life wondering what would have happened had you been a bit braver. I say go for it.
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