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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My ex girlfriend broke up with me a little over 2 months ago after dating for 2 yrs...At first, we decided to stay best friends but then a month later,she started dating someone else and I couldnt handle it, so I told her that we shouldnt talk to each other until i was ready...that was about a month ago. Since then she has tried talking to me once, but I stayed firm to my decision of not talking until I'm readyNow, its 2 months later, I've definitely grown alot and realized yes i may still have feelings for her, but I no longer want her back in a romantic way. But sometimes I get this feeling in my heart where i miss her so much and want to talk to her, even though i now that it wont help me get over her if i talk to her...It just makes me feel so empty and numb inside like my heart had been ripped out of chest and completely shattered! What should I do about this? Some advice would be really helpful..thanks!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (18 June 2011):
 Keep going with the no contact rule, its the best way believe me. Give yourself more time to get over her, two months really is not that long of a time to heal, give yourself more time and just don't talk to her. Give yourself more time. Keep yourself busy and keep an active social life you will know yourself when you are ready to move on.
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